March 2026

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How Trauma Picks Your Partner For You

When childhood trauma goes unhealed, it chooses your partner for you. Especially in a capitalist system built on emotional labor and inequality, love becomes a transaction—and the trauma makes sure you’re always the one paying. This article breaks down why so many people—especially Black women—end up in toxic, one-sided relationships, and how to finally break the cycle.

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